What Do Women Want?

On this blog, I mean. Okay, readers, let’s hear it. What do you want to know about from us romance writers? Do you want to know where we get our ideas from? Do you want to know what our writing process is like? How we juggle writing, jobs, families and everything else in life? How we get into the mood to write a love scene? And whether it’s from experience or imagination? How we do our research? Which comes first, the characters or the plot? Do you want to hear about the parts of our lives that have nothing to do with writing and which aren’t so very different from your own?

 Is there anything you’d like to read that you aren’t finding in today’s romance novels? Anything you’d like more of? Less of?

 Without you, the reader, we wouldn’t be here. So, this is your chance to be heard.

 Don’t be shy. Step right up and let us know what you want to know. I won’t exactly say your wish is our command, but you can be sure we’re listening.

Making It All Up From Scratch

The Eternal RoseI recently took a part-time job at the local newspaper. It’s been years since I worked in a newspaper office, but it’s been fun hanging out in one again. My job is basically that of a glorified typist–taking the little meeting notices and “look what I did” photos people e-mail in, and making them fit AP style. I don’t have to do any of the fact verifying–if they send in the science fair winners with their names all misspelled, it goes in the paper that way.

The thing about newspapers, though, is that they have to be factual. They frown upon reporters making stuff up. (Opinion falls into a different category, okay?) Which is probably the main reason it’s been a long time since I’ve worked at a newspaper. I’m more of a natural maker-up-of-things. Moreover, my romance sub-genre of choice (at the moment, anyway) is fantasy.

The nice thing about fantasy is that you get to make it all up. The tough thing about fantasy is that you have to make it all up. My first series takes place in a fantasy universe with societies that operate in distinctly different ways from most human societies. While my characters look human, they aren’t.

I created two complete societies in The Compass Rose, with individual governmental systems, religions, family structures–the whole nine yards. By the time I got through, I was so sick of making stuff up, I decided we were going to have horses and cows and cats and dogs, and we weren’t having any elf/gnome/tengu variations on the humans, either. Only one kind of people. It’s truly fantasy.

And at the same time, there have to be touchstones of reality–something to allow the reader to believe the story might be real.

So the characters travel across a vast plain much like the one where I lived until recently, and cross into mountains like where I used to live. I used elements drawn from my studies in history–military tactics from the early days of gunpowder, river travel, and other little tidbits that got stuck in my mind from somewhere–just bent so they’d fit in my “world.”

Then I started working on a new series. After much consideration and procrastination, I decided I didn’t want to create a whole new universe with a complete new history. I took familiar history and twisted it just a bit. That meant I had to do more research so I could get the twists coordinated with what really was going on in Victorian England in this era.

But actually, that’s less work in a lot of ways than making it all up. I can use the attitudes and mores of the time to create more conflict, without having to develop an entire new history to explain it. We know about the Victorian era, or we think we do, so I can begin there, and just explain the twists. Which are pretty twisty, since in my Victorian England, they use magic and spells as easily as–well, patent medicines.

This is where normally we ask a clever question and try to get people to comment. But darn if I can think of one. I’m just trying to share a little bit of what’s involved in–well, making stuff up. To illuminate the twisty insides of a romantic fantasy author’s head (which must be a scary place, except, you know, I live inside it, so maybe it’s not that scary to me, except for sometimes).

So–comment anyway, if only to tell me what question I should be asking. Or ask a question yourself. This blog has a lot of smart authors. Somebody’s bound to know the answer. :)

Celebrating Love: Valentine’s Day

To a romance writer (at least this one) this is a special day because we celebrate love. To me love is (to quote a song) what makes the world go around. We see it everywhere–in books, on TV, in movies and in going through our everyday lives.

I’ve been married thirty-seven years and thank God everyday for my wonderful husband. But it’s just not my husband who I love but also family and friends. Valentine’s Day is not just for celebrating that one important love in your life but celebrating love itself. Without love in our lives what do we really have. Without the love of the Lord, my families and friends, my life would be empty.

As I mentioned above we see love everywhere. What are some books or movies you’ve seen that celebrate love–that leave you feeling good when you put the book down or finish watching the movie? There are so many for me, but I’ll name a few to get the ball rolling. I love the movie True Lies. It was fun and about renewing a love in a marriage. Another I saw again recently on TV (while I was exercising–and believe me the time went so much faster while I was viewing it) was Romancing the Stone. I love adventures and mix a good romance into the adventure and that’s my kind of movie. In fact in movies that don’t end happy, I walk away frustrated, wanting to rewrite the ending. That’s the way I felt about the movie, A Message in the Bottle (I believe that’s the name of it) where it was a beautiful love story until the end. The end left me so unsatisfied and definitely NOT uplifted.

So what are some good love stories you’ve read or seen lately?

Margaret Daley
www.margaretdaley.com

A little slice of heaven

Here in Seattle, cupcakes are all the rage. There at least two cupcake stores (one with three locations) in the area. And man, these little babies are excellent quality at both stores. Cleverly, the stores offer multiple flavors and frostings to choose from, (naturally these change with holidays and seasons), and the cupcakes are made fresh once or twice a day. You can get yours to go or sit down at one of the comfy tables and enjoy your treat with great coffee, tea or cocoa. The stores even offer wireless internet. And the wait staff! Cute, young and friendly men and women. It’s not hard to figure out why every one of the stores is generally crowded.

For the second year in a row, the store with three locations has made a special chocolate confection just for Valentine’s Day. The ingredients are the highest-quality, including organic chocolate made at Theo, a local chocolate factory recently featured in O! Magazine. I have toured this factory twice. Fascinating, and they offer lots of free samples of their delectable product. (Are you salivating yet? I am!)

But I digress… Back to the Valentine’s Day cupcake. After reading an article about the aptly named Deathcake Royale, offered only from February1-14, I had to try the stuff now. I bought two, one for me and one for my hubby. At $6 each for a smallish cupcake (actually it looks like a tiny rectangular cake covered in rich ganache), this is quite the pricey treat. The woman behind the counter assured me that one Deathcake was enough for two people. But as a true chocoholic, I wanted a whole one just for me.

I hurried home, gave my hubby his, and eagerly opened mine. Mouth watering, I put it on a plate, grabbed a fork, and sat down. Let me tell you, it was a little slice of pure heaven. Without a doubt the best chocolate cupcake I have ever eaten. I ate it slowly, groaning each time I forked a new bite. About 2/3 of the way through, I was sated. But I simply could not stop until every bite was gone. Amazingly, I didn’t even feel sick when I finished. (Actually, I felt terrific.) Maybe there’s something to be said for the petite portion.

The big question of the day is, how many times will I go back between now and February 14? Or, not wanting to burst out of my jeans, will I rein in my cravings and wait until next year? Time will tell. ☺

Anyone out there with a chocolate story to share? I’m already licking my lips, waiting to hear it.

Until later,
Ann
www.annroth.net
The Pilot’s Wife, March 2008, a Romantic Times top pick!

Why I write romance

Cookie Thornton was my trashman.

If you haven’t heard the news about the shooting in Kirkwood MO, take a minute and go here (www.stltoday.com).

I grew up in Kirkwood. I attended Kirkwood High School. I graduated in 1983, long after Cookie. But I voted for him in an election when he ran for city council. He bought my newborn a baby gift. He took care of everyone in the neighborhood, stopping to assist the elderly woman down the street move boxes when she retired and sold her home.  I moved out of Kirkwood in 1997 and no longer had any contact with Cookie. I really didn’t talk to him much, but he always waved and had a Christmas greeting for those on my block.

When I saw the news I immediately recognized his name. Part of me can’t believe he’s a killer. But part of me knows people change. I guess life got to him. Stuff bogged him down. The Cookie I knew was kind and generous. It’s such a shame, for all involved, especially those whose lives he took.

I’ve learned life doesn’t necessarily come with happy endings.

That depressing fact is the main reason why I write and read romance novels. I don’t care if my genre’s dissed or what anyone thinks of it. I believe and that’s all that matters. I know what I want. Right now I need to escape into a place where the world will end in happily ever after. I want to believe that two people can love each other until the end of time. I want to know that there is good in the world and that problems get solved.

I have 30 hours past a master’s degree. I’m smart–I was in the top 10 percent of my graduating class. I know the difference from reality and fiction. But when I want to forget and fantasize, I don’t want blood, guts, gore or sadness. I want cheer. I want love. I want romance. Even if there is some blood and guts, I want the good guys to come out on top and to live.

Life is hard enough, as sensless tragedies like these show. I want to cling to that silver lining of hope that all you need is love. Without hope, life is empty.

My thoughts and prayers are with all those families touched by this and to my beloved former hometown that once more must endure the national spotlight.

Does anyone know we’re out here?

It’s Wondering Wednesday, and I’m wondering whether people in our own communities know we exist – as published writers, that is.

On Monday, I was interviewed by a reporter from one of the local newspapers. She was working on a Valentine’s Day article on something to do with writing romance. At the time we talked, she wasn’t quite sure of her focus, which was actually kind of fun because her story was being shaped by her conversations with the various people she interviewed. Hmm, that’s kind of like the way I write fiction. I don’t plot it out ahead of time, I let the characters reveal the story to me.

Anyhow, she was very interested and positive about romance, but was quite surprised to learn that there are lots of published romance writers in BC. This reminded me of a RWA® Chapter meeting a few months ago when a reporter attended and was surprised and delighted to see real live published authors with our own books sitting in front of us.

Okay, in British Columbia we have two RWA® Chapters with a total membership of somewhere around 110 or 120. Of those members, around two dozen are published in novel-length romance. We hold regular meetings with workshops, we run conferences, we have an annual event at the library, we have a booth at Word on the Street, we have signings. We have great websites that are kept beautifully up to date. Many of us do individual or shared promo of various types.

How come no-one seems to know we exist?

What does it take to become visible in our own community? What can RWA® Chapters or groups of authors do in terms of promotion that’s effective but not horribly expensive or time-consuming?

I’d love to hear other people’s experiences and their brilliant suggestions.

To darn or not to darn

The Devil's Daughter 

 

Today was the day it finally made sense. 

For those of you who are plotters, you might read this and go ‘huh?’, but for the pantsers out there, you’ll know exactly what I’m talking about because you’ve no doubt been there yourself at some point. 

You start a new story, and because you haven’t given it a stick of thought before hand, you haven’t the first clue why things are unfolding the way they are.  It’s your job to type the story as your characters relay it to you, and if they don’t wish to share their why’s and wherefore’s right up front, there’s not much you can do about it. 

So you forge on, page after page, hoping and praying to all that is holy that somehow, somewhere, you will find the answers to all your questions buried deep within the bits you’ve yet to write.   But as you trudge* on, page after page, with no clear answers in sight, you begin to worry.   

Maybe you should learn how to plot.  Maybe you should learn how to do character sketches.  Maybe you should study the 3-act structure. 

And maybe, just maybe, you should ram a darning needle in your eye. 

My point is, I’ve been there for days, darning needle in hand, wondering why why WHY this one particular thing was happening the way it was happening, and what possible difference it was going to make in the end of the story (talk to me in December, after the book comes out, and I’ll tell you which point it was – LOL).   

That was last night.   This morning . . . . .(cue Emeril Lagasse). . . . . . BAM! The proverbial bolt of lightening came smokin’ out of the snow clouds and slammed me straight between the eyes.  There I was, minding my own business at 6 am hockey practice, with all the other bleary-eyed parents drinking their large double-doubles from Timmy’s, and suddenly I had this grand epiphany. 

How did I miss it before now?  Duh – of course that’s what it means!  As my mother would say – “If it had had teeth, it would have jumped up and bit you on the nose.”  Well, Mom, I’m happy to announce, there was no bodily harm involved, and I have once again secured the darning needles in a secure place for possible use with the next story.  

*To trudge: the slow, weary, depressing yet determined walk of a man who has nothing left in life except the impulse to simply soldier on. – A KNIGHT’S TALE, by Brian Helgeland

 

 

Top Ten Ways Writing Romance Novels is Like Playing in the Super Bowl

With homage to David Letterman.

10. Even the best get sacked sometimes.

9. No matter how exciting your work, some are only there for the commercials or the party.

8. Your true friends will always have your back.

7. Someone is always going to armchair quarterback your work.

6. Sometimes you have to keep rushing for all the yardage you can get.

5. The middle cannot sag or malfunction.

4. Romance writers take a lot of hits for writing in their chosen genre.

3. You always need to have your game face on, especially when times get tough.

2. Sometimes you can’t be perfect, but you can still have the best season.

1. It’s all about not quitting, even in the final seconds.               

Congrats to the New York Giants for winning the 2008 Super Bowl Championship. This was a hard one for me because I would have loved to see a 19-0 season for the Patriots. However, I always cheer for the underdogs. And I like Manning and Strahan much better than Brady & Co.  Happy Monday everyone! Now it’s countdown time to the Daytona 500!

A Must to Avoid

guru
I don’t pay much attention to movie reviews. That’s because I like romantic movies (usually dissed by the reviewers) and movies with a happy ending. I don’t go to movies to be depressed. I go to be entertained and to feel good when I walk out of the theater.

I love everything about going to movies. I love sitting in the theater and watching the previews. I love munching on a small popcorn…okay, with butter added. I love being enveloped by the surround sound. Most of all I like watching the story unfold.

Since I’m somewhat discerning in the movies I see, I can’t remember going to one where I felt disappointed when it was over. So when I saw that Moviefone had come up with their “10 Worst Movies of 2008 list,” I had to check it out.

10. Meet Dave starring Eddie Murphey
9. The Hottie and the Nottie starring Paris Hilton and Christine Lakin
8. 88 Minutes starrring Al Pacino
7. Fool’s Gold starring Matthew McConaughey and Kate Hudson
6. Saw Vee
5. Jumper
4. 10,000 BC
3. Disaster Movie
2. The Love Guru (I saw the previews of this one and thought it looked stupid)
1. The Happening

I’d like to know if you’ve seen any of these movies and if they were really as bad as the review thought. Also– do you have any movies that you think should have been on this list?? Ones that I should definitely avoid?

Dreams & Desires Redux

I’ve been AWOL from blogging for several months for a variety of reasons that I’m sure wouldn’t interest any of you reading this.  I’m back now because what I have to say is something I hope will be of interest to all of you.  So even though there are so many blogs and so little time, please stick around and continue to read.

Last year around this time I wrote a blog about Dreams & Desires: A Collection of Romance and Erotic Tales.  This anthology, published by Freya’s Bower a year ago, is a compilation of nineteen stories by nineteen authors.  I was honored to have been invited to take part in this anthology because all the net proceeds — that’s 100% of the profit — from the sales of the anthology go directly to a battered woman’s shelter in Florida.   

Dreams & Desires: A Collection of Romance and Erotic Tales was so successful that Freya’s Bower decided to publish a second volume, and once again, I was invited to contribute a story.  Eighteen other authors have joined me in Dreams & Desires: A Collection of Romance Tales, Volume 2 (ISBN: 978-1-934069-73-8)  This second volume will benefit a California shelter for battered women. 

 The story I’ve contributed is called Portrait of Love.  Here’s a blurb: In a last ditch effort to stave off foreclosure of her home, Amelia Gordon puts all her hope — not to mention most of her dwindling funds — into a plan that relies on the kindness of one particular stranger.  However, Rick “Colesteen” Hewitt is no knight in shining armor.  Or is he? 

95% of abuse victims are women.  Every year four million women are assaulted by their spouses or partners.  Buying a book won’t solve this epidemic, but it’s a small step toward helping women who desperately need our help. 

Wouldn’t you like to make a difference?  You can by purchasing a copy of Dreams & Desires: A Collection of Romance Tales, Volume 2.   And as an added bonus to contributing to such a worthy cause, you’ll be rewarded with 19 great short stories by some of today’s rising authors.  I have links on my website at http://www.loiswinston.com/books/dd2.html to Amazon and Freya’s Bower for both the e-book and paperback version. 

 Thanks for stopping by and may you all have your own dreams and desires fulfilled in 2008.